Comparison kills motivation. Here’s how to break the habit:
1. Focus on Your Progress
Track your own achievements, not others’.
2. Limit Social Media
Reduce exposure to curated success stories.
- How Social Media Comparison Impacts Mental Health – BetterHelp
- Understanding Social Comparison – JED Foundation
3. Celebrate Small Wins
Every step forward matters.
- Why Celebrating Small Wins Matters – Harvard Summer School
- How to Celebrate Small Wins for Daily Motivation
4. Reframe Thoughts
Instead of “they’re better,” say “I’m improving too.”
5. Surround Yourself With Support
Positive people boost confidence and perspective.
- Why You Should Surround Yourself With Supportive People – Foundsiders
- Building a Strong Support System – Neuro & Counseling Center
Your journey is unique. Comparison steals joy; focus on growth instead.
Share one small win you’re proud of today!
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